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Autism Awareness Month

The word Autism has been coming up more and more in our society for about 30 years now, but what is it exactly?

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It wasn’t until 2011 that I began to learn what Autism was and how it was about to change my life dramatically. My baby boy, RJ, was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder in 2013 when he turnedย five years old. When he was diagnosed, I had already prepared myself, at least I thought. Honestly, there wasn’t anything that could have prepared me for such an emotional journey. By the time RJ turned one years old, we noticed Rj’s speech and motor skills weren’t developing like they should have been. He wasn’t able to speak until he was almost two years old, which delayed not only his speech but language.

When RJย began preschool, we immediately connected with the special school district in our neighborhood so he could receive additional learning services, such as an IEP (Individualized Education Program) for social/emotional development, speech and language, and fine motor development. Since then, RJ has thrived and excelled in every area of reading, language, math, etc. You could understand 50% of his verbiage by the time he was five years old and now you can’t get him to be quiet. He struggled for a while, but my baby boy is so smart. He has and continues to overcome every obstacle in his way.

Ok, I’m going to brag a little bit. My RJ is a master builder at legos. I have seen this kid build a 250 pieceย complex Dinosaur lego set in less than 2 hours. It takes me that long to read the instructions. ๐Ÿ˜‰ He loves history. He can tell you most of the important facts about the Titanic; specs of the ship, size, number of survivors, date it sank, date it was built, etc. It’s truly impressive to hear him speak about all of the interesting details of historical moments way before his time. He is a wonderful, patient big and little brother. He has more patience than anyone I know. It takes him a lot to get frustrated or to even cry. He is an amazing helper and loves, loves, loves Godzilla. He is truly an amazing kid. โค๏ธ

That being saidย I would like to dedicate the month of April to my Rj. Although he “dances to a different beat”, he is one of the best dancers I know (I have hours of video to prove it). And I cannot wait to see what God has in store for our little wonder.

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So for the next few posts, I want to talk about how to understand Autism and how we can help our loved ones who see the world in a brighter way. Since I like to go on and on (blah, blah, blah), I thought maybe breaking it up into multiple posts would give you guys shorter post to read (๐Ÿšจblogging advice alert๐Ÿšจ).

Anyway, thanks for reading my thoughts and allowing me to introduce you to one of the loves of my life. I hope we are all able to learn new information from each other throughout this journey.

Please feel free to drop a comment below to share an experience or relationship you have with someone who is Autistic. Or maybe you have a question about Autism that you would like for me to answer in my future post.

Please readย Rjโ€™s First Fist Fightโ€ฆAnd Im A Little Proud!ย to learn more about RJ and our response to his first fight. It’ll surprise you!

Love you all and stay blessed!

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“Everyone has a mountain to climb and autism has not been my mountain, it has been my opportunity for victory.” –Rachel Barcellona

Autism images borrowed fromย google pics

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33 Comments Add yours

  1. He sounds like a super great kid โค

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    1. He really is. Thank you so much for reading all about him โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  2. Ives Trendy Blog says:

    RJ is really awesome!
    He’s a smart kid.
    And he’s so beautiful๐Ÿ˜†.

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    1. Thank you so much. God has truly blessed us with him. โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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      1. Ives Trendy Blog says:

        You’re welcome!
        Indeed he has.
        God bless you and you’re family!

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        1. Thank you. God bless you and your family as well!! God is good โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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        2. Ives Trendy Blog says:

          You’re welcome!
          Amen โคโคโคโค๐Ÿ‘

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  3. That’s my main man… Tell him that Uncle DK is SO PROUD OF HIM..
    Much love to him and of course your whole family..

    PS – Tell Kevin to keep playing his Play station cause I am proud of him too ๐Ÿ˜›

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚Hey DK! I sure will tell them, both ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ love you too dear friend!!!

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    1. Thank you so much! He is a darling ๐Ÿ˜

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  4. Kay says:

    Beautiful story! Go RJ continue to show up & show out on what a kid with Autism Spectrum disorder can do!

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    1. Thank you so much!! And yes, you know heโ€™ll continue to show the world that autism is not a disability but a different ability. โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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  5. Ives Trendy Blog says:

    Hey Honey, I nominated you for the liebster award 2018 check it out https://ivestrendytopic.wordpress.com/2018/04/11/liebster-award-2018/

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    1. Thank you so much love! Iโ€™m truly honored โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

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      1. Ives Trendy Blog says:

        Much welcomed Darling. Congratulationsโคโคโคโค๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

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        1. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜โค๏ธโค๏ธ

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  6. He’s a cutie! Woah and so intelligent as well!!! May God continue to bless him and heal him in Jesus Name! God bless you as well! Thank you much for sharing with us! Xxoo ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ’–โœจ

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    1. Thank you Tammy! I really appreciate your kind words, dear. ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  7. Bruce Rucker says:

    A great article!

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    1. Iโ€™m so glad you liked it. Thank you so much for reading and commenting broski โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  8. Iriowen says:

    Aww! RJ is adorable. He will make you proud mama donโ€™t worry. My baby is almost one year old and his father is always worried about his milestones. I donโ€™t worry because God is in control of my sonโ€™s destiny.
    Nice post! Thanks for sharing. ๐Ÿ˜Šโ™ฅ๏ธ๐ŸŒบ

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    1. Aww thank you for your kind words. And yes, you are correct, God is in control and his love is the greatest gift so your son will be just fine. Thank you reading and commenting. Stay blessed โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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      1. Iriowen says:

        Thanks and stay blessed too.๐Ÿ˜Šโ™ฅ๏ธ

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  9. iScriblr says:

    Beautiful post and awwwwww RJ is indeed a sweetheart! #godBless ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Thank you so much dear โค๏ธโค๏ธ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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  10. fourjordans says:

    We are an autism family also! Thanks for candidly sharing what a blessing our kids are. They might be considered different but the truth is they are very gifted.

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